Celebrating Women: Voices from Singapore

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We Talk About What It’s Like to Be A Woman In Singapore | International Women’s Day 2020

TEAM NOC

Mar 3, 2020

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People & Blogs

Gender equality and challenging stereotypes

  1. The video features various members of NOC, including Joanna, Gabriel, Nicole, Das, Rachel, Emma, Grace, and Aiken, who introduce themselves and their roles within and outside NOC. They share their experiences and perspectives on gender roles and stereotypes.
  2. Joanna, who has been with NOC for six years, is also an actor and personal trainer. Gabriel, besides his role at NOC, is involved in acting. Nicole is the second runner-up of a competition called Knockout. Das is an actor, comedian, and student. Rachel and Emma, the first runner-up of Knockout Season 1, also share their roles. Grace and Aiken, a partner, producer, host, and actor at NOC, contribute to the discussion.
  3. The participants discuss societal expectations and stereotypes related to gender, such as the belief that boys should wear blue and girls should wear pink, and the pressure on women to marry rich men or be supported by men. They highlight the limitations these stereotypes impose on both genders.
  4. Several participants recount personal experiences where they were told they couldn't do certain things because of their gender, such as not being allowed to cut hair short or being expected to play with gender-specific toys like Barbie dolls for girls and Transformers for boys.
  5. The discussion emphasizes the importance of gender equality, where both men and women should have equal rights, opportunities, and protections. This includes equal pay, opportunities, and the ability to pursue any interest or career without gender-based limitations.
  6. Participants stress the need for men to use their privilege to support gender equality by intervening in situations where women are treated unfairly. They advocate for treating all individuals with respect and ensuring that gender does not determine a person's worth or capabilities.
  7. The conversation concludes with a call for a society where gender does not limit what individuals can achieve, and where both genders are seen as equally strong and capable.

Challenges and empowerment of women in Singapore

  1. The text discusses societal expectations and stereotypes about gender roles, particularly the notion that men should tolerate more pain than women. This stereotype is challenged by the speaker, who highlights that such expectations are not universally true.
  2. The speaker reflects on the sense of security in Singapore, acknowledging it as a privilege. They express a desire for equal treatment in social situations, regardless of gender, and note the disparity in attention and assistance given to women in certain contexts.
  3. A personal experience is shared where the speaker, a female co-host, was paid less than her male counterpart despite having the same experience and job responsibilities. This highlights the issue of gender pay inequality.
  4. The speaker discusses societal expectations for women to engage in certain activities, such as sports, which may not align with their personal interests or skills. This reflects broader societal limitations on gender roles and the undervaluing of creative talents compared to athletic achievements.
  5. The text touches on the concept of empowerment, particularly in non-traditional gender roles, such as men being househusbands. The speaker expresses pride in seeing men who do not conform to the stereotype of being the primary breadwinner.
  6. The speaker notes the freedom women have in expressing themselves through makeup and fashion, contrasting it with the limited freedoms traditionally afforded to men. This highlights the different societal expectations and freedoms based on gender.
  7. The speaker questions why there is a need to emphasize women's strength, noting that men are not subjected to the same scrutiny. They reflect on the struggle for empowerment and the need to justify it, unlike the inherent privileges often afforded to men.
  8. The speaker feels empowered by the ability to move freely and safely in Singapore, but contrasts this with concerns for their younger sister's safety, highlighting ongoing gender-based safety issues.

Women empower and inspire in diverse roles

  1. The text discusses the role of women in various capacities, highlighting their strength and resilience. It emphasizes the importance of women in both personal and professional spheres.
  2. A male content creator on Instagram and YouTube shares his perspective on feeling empowered as a male, acknowledging the influence of women in his life.
  3. The creator reflects on his mother's dedication, noting her ability to manage household chores while prioritizing her family, showcasing her selflessness and love.
  4. He admires his mother's ability to provide without feeling burdened, expressing amazement at her capacity to love unconditionally.
  5. The creator mentions that he doesn't have a single role model but admires various traits in different people, particularly women who have influenced his life.
  6. He acknowledges that many opportunities in his life were provided by women, including his first boss and favorite teacher, who were both female and excelled in their roles.
  7. Emma Stone is mentioned as an example of a woman who defies traditional femininity, admired for her authenticity and strength.
  8. The creator's mother is portrayed as a strong, resilient single parent who took on dual roles, teaching him life skills typically associated with fathers.
  9. Despite facing numerous challenges, his mother is depicted as someone who has endured hardships and continues to forgive, embodying ultimate resilience and strength.
  10. The text also highlights a woman named Sangha, who is the founder of a children's home in Kathmandu, Nepal, showcasing her dedication to caring for children single-handedly.

Admiration for women's resilience and strength

  1. The speaker admires Sylvia for her resilience and determination, recalling an incident where Sylvia pushed through illness to complete a mountain climb in Krabi.
  2. A close friend of the speaker, a single mother of three, is admired for her energy and ability to manage her responsibilities independently.
  3. The speaker's grandmother, at 70, is celebrated for her adventurous spirit, exemplified by her solo camping trip to Sydney with strangers.
  4. The speaker notes that women often endure physical challenges, such as menstruation, without complaint, highlighting their strength and resilience.
  5. Many women in the speaker's life have overcome societal and familial limitations, as well as abuse, to achieve their dreams, demonstrating remarkable strength.
  6. The speaker appreciates the emotional intelligence and support provided by female friends, who offer comfort and understanding in difficult times.
  7. Women are admired for their ability to maintain composure and logic, even in challenging situations, and for their independence in financial matters.

Empowerment and self-love for women

  1. The speaker emphasizes the importance of independence and confidence, aiming to pass these values to future generations. They express a desire to be a role model who is unaffected by others' opinions, whether from men or women.
  2. In facing challenges, the speaker believes in confronting and solving problems rather than ignoring them, aspiring to be someone who grows stronger through adversity.
  3. The speaker advocates for women to love and embrace themselves, encouraging them to support and uplift each other, focusing on personal growth and self-improvement.
  4. They stress the importance of living life on one's own terms, not letting gender dictate capabilities or obligations, and pursuing personal goals regardless of societal expectations.
  5. The speaker highlights the common tendency for people to be self-absorbed, suggesting that understanding this can help improve self-esteem and reduce the fear of judgment from others.
  6. They assert that women, like men, have the right to refuse unwanted demands, emphasizing the importance of consent and personal boundaries in all aspects of life.
  7. The speaker encourages self-love and independence while acknowledging the value of vulnerability, suggesting that true strength comes from balancing these qualities.
  8. They admire individuals who are steadfast in their beliefs and values, noting that such unwavering stability can provide support and inspiration to those around them.